Everyday
is always the same thing, we grab our phones and scroll through notifications
looking for recognition from everyone else. We want to make sure our lives are
been noticed by other people.
Though
we are happy with our significant others, we still are always walking around
with our heads down, posting, liking, and sharing. It's important to not allow
the Internet to take the place of or detract from our relationships with the
people we care about.
Start
Grounding Yourself In The Now And Here
People's
feelings of disconnection and alienation from reality is often caused by their
own devices. If we would just look up from time to time, we would see the
opportunities to engage the world. In our relationships, we can start to choose
to become too focused on someone other than our partner. It starts with small
acts of neglect, choosing to text someone else, instead of your partner.
Choosing to talk to someone else about your day or feelings. It all builds up
various persona's, detracting energy and focus from our real relationships.
Distancing
yourself from devices can be your start to help make your life feel more free.
Constant updates and information about the lives of others, can detract you from
your life and make you question the validity of your life.
Control
Yourself
Changing
your routine can save a relationship. Show your partner that your love is true.
Paying attention to your partner is an important element. Reciprocate the
attention they show you. Opening yourself to the here and now, can help build a
great foundation for your relationship. It helps the two of you acknowledge all
the bits and pieces of your relationship. Never do anything that you would
hesitate to show your love.
Show
Your Other Half
The
cyber world can be very controlling and can consume lives. Looking at it every
now and then is never a bad thing. The best thing you can do in your
relationship is make an effort. Plan a date out and surprise them. When you are
with them, truly be with them. When you are apart, send them reminders that you
love and are thinking about them. Do your best to solidify a sense of belonging
and support outside of the digital world.
source
: higherperspectives.com