“We are not our bodies, our possessions, or our career. Who we are
is Divine Love and that is Infinite.” Dr. Wayne W. Dyer (1940-2015)
There are people in this world who can touch our hearts in really
profound and meaningful ways, and that’s exactly the impact Wayne Dyer had on
me.
Wayne W. Dyer, you were one of the most beautiful, humble and
authentic people who ever walked on this Earth. And I learned so much from you.
You taught me how to be humble, how to live in love and truth, and how to
always honor who I truly am underneath it all. You taught me how to be better
than I used to be and I will always be thankful for this. Thank you for sharing
your love, your knowledge and your wisdom with all of us.
The world was, is, and will be a better place just because you
have lived. You will be greatly missed.
1. Cooperation is healthier than competition.
Work on improving your own person and be so busy doing so that you
don’t have time to compare and compete with others. We are all in this together
and this sense of separation will only weaken us, creating more pain and
suffering.
“If you’re always in a hurry, always trying to get ahead of the
other guy, or someone else’s performance is what motivates you, then that
person is in control of you.” ~ Wayne Dyer
2. If you love people you don’t try to change them.
When you love somebody you love them for what they are not for
what you want them to be, without imposing your will and without constantly
trying to change them.
“Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care
for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they
satisfy you.” ~ Wayne Dyer
3. Ignorance is not bliss.
Allow yourself to expand your mind a little more day by day, give
up labels and you will be happier. If you constantly say NO to “strange” ideas,
things, events, people, how can you expect to progress through life? Try new
things, if it makes your life better, stick to it and if it doesn’t, let it go.
It’s that simple.
“The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you
don’t know anything about.” ~ Wayne Dyer
4. You are not a victim of the world.
When you affirm things like, You make me mad, this situation is
upsetting me, I can’t believe you are treating me this way, etc., you start
playing the victim game. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, your own
feelings and actions and by doing so you will no longer give your power away to
forces outside yourself. When something negative comes your way, you will pause
and instead of reacting, you will RESPOND, to everything and everyone. You will
no longer be a victim, but rather a person who is aware of his/her inner
strength and power.
“How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” ~
Wayne Dyer
5. You find yourself in solitude.
If you are comfortable in your own skin and really love your own
person, you will not be afraid to spend time alone. You will enjoy the time you
spend alone as much as you do when you are surrounded by people you dearly
love.
“You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.” ~
Wayne Dyer
6. Rejection makes you stronger.
If you trust and listen to your own heart and intuition, you will
always know where to go and what to do with your life. No matter how many doors
close in your face, you will not give up and you will allow rejection to make
you stronger and better, not bitter.
“Be grateful to all those people who told you no. It’s because of
them that you managed to do it all yourself.” ~Wayne Dyer
7. Self worth cannot be verified by others.
If you constantly seek outside yourself for approval and
validation, you will never be happy. We are all different and we all perceive
things in different ways but your reputation is not something you can really
control. Your reputation is not really in your hands, so stop trying to please
everyone around you and start pleasing your SELF. You are the person who
matters the most and if you yourself are not happy with who you are, chances
are others will not be happy with you either!
“Self-worth cannot be verified by others. You are worthy because
you say it is so. If you depend on others for your value it is other-worth.” ~
Wayne Dyer
8. You don’t attract what you want in your life, you attract what
you are.
People often think if they focus long enough on something they
want, with the Law of Attraction and everything, they will get whatever they
want in life, but that’s not how things work. If you purify your mind and
heart, you will attract many beautiful things into your life, and abundance
will not be something you will have to chase because it will chase you. On the
other hand, if your mind and heart is full of negativity, negativity in all
forms will show up in your life.
”If you’re obsessed with defeating the other guy and winning at
all costs, then you’re guaranteed to attract the vibrational equivalent of this
thinking into your life- even if you do yoga and stand on your head chanting
mantras everyday.” ~ Wayne Dyer
9. There are no limits to what you can achieve – you are a
no-limit person.
There are no limits to what you can achieve, only those you choose
to impose on yourself.
“When you argue for your limitations, all you get are your
limitations.” ~ Wayne Dyer
10. “Heaven on earth” is a choice you must make, not a place you
must find.
Focus on the BAD and that’s all you will see and attract into your
life; focus on the GOOD and that’s all you will see and attract into your life.
“Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a
hostile world. Same world.” ~ Wayne Dyer
11. No need to stress over everything.
Believe it or not, there is an invisible force who created the
whole world, the whole Universe and this force becomes available to us the
moment we stop trying to do it all by ourselves, the moment we decide to allow
events to take their natural course and just go with the FLOW.
“Good morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your
problems today. I will not need your help. So have a miraculous day.” ~ Wayne
Dyer
12. All that you need is already within you.
In this moment you have it all, right NOW and right here, there is
nothing lacking. Take time to be quiet at least 5 minutes per day and in time
you will discover that you do have access to HAPPINESS, PEACE, ABUNDANCE and
all that is good at all times.
“You have everything you need for complete peace and total
happiness right now.” ~ Wayne Dyer
13. There is no end to personal growth.
Personal growth doesn’t end when you finish school. The moment
you’ve stopped growing you can say that you’ve stopped living.
Individuals who use self-labels are stating, “I’m a finished product
in this area, and I’m never going to be any different.” If you’re a finished
product all tied up and put away, you’ve stopped growing. ~ Wayne Dyer
14. Be realistic, expect miracles.
There is a great power in the Universe, the Source of it all, and
this power makes itself available to you the moment you align with who you
really are deep down inside, creating miracles for you and those you love.
“Once you believe in yourself and see your soul as divine and
precious, you’ll automatically be converted to a being who can create
miracles.” ~ Wayne Dyer
15. Follow your heart and you will be successful.
There is a great power in the Universe, the Source of it all, and
this power makes itself available to you the moment you align with who you
really are deep down inside, creating miracles for you and those you love.
“Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in
your life.” ~ Wayne Dyer
Do you have a favorite quote, or maybe a particular lesson you
have learned from Wayne Dyer? If you do, please share it with us in the comment
section below.
With all my love,
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