Young man, be aware of these four good-hearted friends:
the helper, the friend who endures in good times and bad, the mentor, and the
compassionate friend.
The helper : can
be identified by four things: by protecting you when you are vulnerable, and
likewise your wealth, being a refuge when you are afraid, and in various tasks
providing double what is requested.
The enduring friend : can
be identified by four things: by telling you secrets, guarding your own secrets
closely, not abandoning you in misfortune, and even dying for you.
The mentor : can
be identified by four things: by restraining you from wrongdoing, guiding you
towards good actions, telling you what you ought to know, and showing you the
path to samsaric heavens.
The compassionate friend : can
be identified by four things: by not rejoicing in your misfortune, delighting
in your good fortune, preventing others from speaking ill of you, and
encouraging others who praise your good qualities.
- Taken from the
Sigalovada Sutta
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